Virginity Are Losers?

One day at the mall, i accidentally passed by on a famous outlet (clothing).. i invite myself in to check for their new stuffs. i noticed a simple black tee and its colorful print, it says "VIRGINITY IS FOR LOSER". i giggled to the thought of it.

"hahaha, at least I'm not one.." i muttered to myself.

but as i walk out to the store, i asked myself this, "is it really true that virginity is for loser?"

that those people who choose not to surrender their virginity are losers?

i think million times... NO!!!

virgin people are not loser, either the none virgins. women specifically are underestimated and misunderstood by many when it comes to that issue.. VIRGINITY.

i, myself, would admit that I'm not anymore. I'm not a self-proclaim bitch but I'm just being true to myself that I'm not, not that I'm proud of it.instead, i can answer straightforwardly if someone will ask me.

i gave it to the man i thought ill be with forever, WITH NO REGRETS, NO IFS, NO BUTS..

i was ready then, i gave it because i love him that much, before. but it doesn't make me less of a woman. giving it t someone is a very difficult decision to make, at least for some few who value themselves. i don't have any objections on people who are virgins, none virgins and to some who are trying to hide the truth about it.

for me, SEX IS NOT A SIN.

it is one way of expressing your love, emotions and affection to the one you love you do it with love.. passionately. the intense feeling of inexplicable fiery emotion in your first sex experience is one of the most fascinating feeling in some one's life. but it doesn't mean if you're committed, you need or have to have sex with that person, that's when the CHOICES comes in.


we should respect the choices of everyone, and DO NOT JUDGE them with the choices they make. there is no certain rule in giving it but its up to you on how to value yourself whether you are or you are not a virgin anymore.

the way you handle yourself reflects on how you respect people around you. whether you choose to stay virgin or you wan to gave it already...

just remember, that you have to RESPECT YOURSELF, treat YOURSELF as a PRECIOUS GEM..

Single Is A Gift

 

Alone? That was me almost a year ago. Sullen, empty. I wore many masks to hide, to pretend and to scape to the sadness that never seems to leave me. It embraces me at night, it’s killing me slowly. It’s always there and soon it became my best buddy. I grew fond of it, until it bestowed me my wish, to be numb..

Pain become my companion as I took my journey. Pain taught me to forget the pain and hurt I’ve been through, I hated love, commitments, relationships, it disgusts me seeing couples cuddling, kissing, hugging and showing affection and passion to each other.

The Art Of Letting Go

Sometimes, we ask ourselves why love leaves us when we have given so much of ourselves that there is little left for us to start all over again. A lot of us built dreams with the people we hope would be with us forever, only to realize that there is nothing permanent in this cruel world. "Love come and go."

The Game Called Love

About love...

Love is one of the questions we have always attempted to answer in more than one way. This only shows that it is quite impossible to grasp and comprehend the totality of it’s being. But we try, don’t we? We try and find out by getting hurt… we try and find out… when you enter into a relationship, when you commit yourself you must always bear in mind that you are sharing a part of yourself to a stranger who mere chance or destine fate, you take the risk.