About love...
Love is one of the questions we have always attempted to answer in more than one way. This only shows that it is quite impossible to grasp and comprehend the totality of it’s being. But we try, don’t we? We try and find out by getting hurt… we try and find out… when you enter into a relationship, when you commit yourself you must always bear in mind that you are sharing a part of yourself to a stranger who mere chance or destine fate, you take the risk.
She is different that is why you should not expect her to be like you, to posses the same thoughts; to win the same emotions. You should love her because she is she, not because she is you. This being so, you must learn to accept her and her totality as a person. Growth is brought about by your indifference, which in one way or another cultivate the relationship. It is also important to remember that trust is a vital element in the relationship…
Unconditional trust.. NO IFS… NO BUTS.. when you love, honestly love, then you must be willing to sacrifice that there are times when hurt go deep, when the pain is almost unbearable, when you are about to give up. But loving is not giving up easily. It is being there when all have none, when there is little strength left; when it is too much to stand. Loving is letting be. There is no difference between
AS A MATTER OF FACT way or a “ROMANTIC” Way.
If she says she is honest with you, then you don’t kill yourself by saying that she
is not. How do you know? Her past experience is not enough to doubt her. If she can offer you “AS A MATTER OF FACT” way, then accept and if you love the “ROMANTIC” way in return do so. Please do not measure the exchange. Just be honest with each other and have an open channel of communication constantly where there is free sharing of ideas..
NO IFS…. NO BUTS….. just LOVE, nobody promised you a rose garden but you are a PROMISE. Get the best out of life. Love and get hurt.. get hurt and learn and love again…. It is a cycle, experience the cycle and feel like you’re in a circle. I hope I made a sense of whatever thought I have shared with you.
You see, I have been in love too….
Love is one of the questions we have always attempted to answer in more than one way. This only shows that it is quite impossible to grasp and comprehend the totality of it’s being. But we try, don’t we? We try and find out by getting hurt… we try and find out… when you enter into a relationship, when you commit yourself you must always bear in mind that you are sharing a part of yourself to a stranger who mere chance or destine fate, you take the risk.
She is different that is why you should not expect her to be like you, to posses the same thoughts; to win the same emotions. You should love her because she is she, not because she is you. This being so, you must learn to accept her and her totality as a person. Growth is brought about by your indifference, which in one way or another cultivate the relationship. It is also important to remember that trust is a vital element in the relationship…
Unconditional trust.. NO IFS… NO BUTS.. when you love, honestly love, then you must be willing to sacrifice that there are times when hurt go deep, when the pain is almost unbearable, when you are about to give up. But loving is not giving up easily. It is being there when all have none, when there is little strength left; when it is too much to stand. Loving is letting be. There is no difference between
AS A MATTER OF FACT way or a “ROMANTIC” Way.
If she says she is honest with you, then you don’t kill yourself by saying that she
is not. How do you know? Her past experience is not enough to doubt her. If she can offer you “AS A MATTER OF FACT” way, then accept and if you love the “ROMANTIC” way in return do so. Please do not measure the exchange. Just be honest with each other and have an open channel of communication constantly where there is free sharing of ideas..
NO IFS…. NO BUTS….. just LOVE, nobody promised you a rose garden but you are a PROMISE. Get the best out of life. Love and get hurt.. get hurt and learn and love again…. It is a cycle, experience the cycle and feel like you’re in a circle. I hope I made a sense of whatever thought I have shared with you.
You see, I have been in love too….
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