One day at the mall, i accidentally passed by on a famous outlet (clothing).. i invite myself in to check for their new stuffs. i noticed a simple black tee and its colorful print, it says "VIRGINITY IS FOR LOSER". i giggled to the thought of it.
"hahaha, at least I'm not one.." i muttered to myself.
but as i walk out to the store, i asked myself this, "is it really true that virginity is for loser?"
that those people who choose not to surrender their virginity are losers?
i think million times... NO!!!
virgin people are not loser, either the none virgins. women specifically are underestimated and misunderstood by many when it comes to that issue.. VIRGINITY.
i, myself, would admit that I'm not anymore. I'm not a self-proclaim bitch but I'm just being true to myself that I'm not, not that I'm proud of it.instead, i can answer straightforwardly if someone will ask me.
i gave it to the man i thought ill be with forever, WITH NO REGRETS, NO IFS, NO BUTS..
i was ready then, i gave it because i love him that much, before. but it doesn't make me less of a woman. giving it t someone is a very difficult decision to make, at least for some few who value themselves. i don't have any objections on people who are virgins, none virgins and to some who are trying to hide the truth about it.
for me, SEX IS NOT A SIN.
it is one way of expressing your love, emotions and affection to the one you love you do it with love.. passionately. the intense feeling of inexplicable fiery emotion in your first sex experience is one of the most fascinating feeling in some one's life. but it doesn't mean if you're committed, you need or have to have sex with that person, that's when the CHOICES comes in.
we should respect the choices of everyone, and DO NOT JUDGE them with the choices they make. there is no certain rule in giving it but its up to you on how to value yourself whether you are or you are not a virgin anymore.
the way you handle yourself reflects on how you respect people around you. whether you choose to stay virgin or you wan to gave it already...
just remember, that you have to RESPECT YOURSELF, treat YOURSELF as a PRECIOUS GEM..
"hahaha, at least I'm not one.." i muttered to myself.
but as i walk out to the store, i asked myself this, "is it really true that virginity is for loser?"
that those people who choose not to surrender their virginity are losers?
i think million times... NO!!!
virgin people are not loser, either the none virgins. women specifically are underestimated and misunderstood by many when it comes to that issue.. VIRGINITY.
i, myself, would admit that I'm not anymore. I'm not a self-proclaim bitch but I'm just being true to myself that I'm not, not that I'm proud of it.instead, i can answer straightforwardly if someone will ask me.
i gave it to the man i thought ill be with forever, WITH NO REGRETS, NO IFS, NO BUTS..
i was ready then, i gave it because i love him that much, before. but it doesn't make me less of a woman. giving it t someone is a very difficult decision to make, at least for some few who value themselves. i don't have any objections on people who are virgins, none virgins and to some who are trying to hide the truth about it.
for me, SEX IS NOT A SIN.
it is one way of expressing your love, emotions and affection to the one you love you do it with love.. passionately. the intense feeling of inexplicable fiery emotion in your first sex experience is one of the most fascinating feeling in some one's life. but it doesn't mean if you're committed, you need or have to have sex with that person, that's when the CHOICES comes in.
we should respect the choices of everyone, and DO NOT JUDGE them with the choices they make. there is no certain rule in giving it but its up to you on how to value yourself whether you are or you are not a virgin anymore.
the way you handle yourself reflects on how you respect people around you. whether you choose to stay virgin or you wan to gave it already...
just remember, that you have to RESPECT YOURSELF, treat YOURSELF as a PRECIOUS GEM..
