Aug 5, 2010

Can Ex-lovers Be Good Friends?






In relationships, couples tend to pride themselves on being able to talk about anything and everything. The measure of a healthy relationship is often based on honesty, trust, and how comfortable we feel discussing ourselves, our feelings, hopes, and goals. However, there are few topics that can strike more fear and tension into an otherwise blissful union than the opening of the ex-files.


Chances are, you have had lovers before. By adulthood, most of us have a couple of failed bonds under our belts, and reasoning would pursue that our present partners have had the same. Although we are deliberately mindful of this item, most population would rather not recognize any kind about it. If we put a label and a face to the ex of this someone who is now the center of our world, it becomes not hard to put too much reflected into “their” bond alternatively of “our” relationship.