In relationships, couples tend to pride themselves on being able to talk about anything and everything. The measure of a healthy relationship is often based on honesty, trust, and how comfortable we feel discussing ourselves, our feelings, hopes, and goals. However, there are few topics that can strike more fear and tension into an otherwise blissful union than the opening of the ex-files.
Chances are, you
have had
lovers before. By adulthood, most of us have a couple of failed bonds
under
our belts, and reasoning would
pursue that our present
partners have had the same.
Although we are deliberately mindful of this
item, most population would
rather not recognize any kind about it. If we put a label and a face to the ex of this someone who is now the center of our world,
it becomes not hard to put too much reflected into “their” bond alternatively of
“our” relationship.