Showing posts with label break-up. Show all posts
Showing posts with label break-up. Show all posts

Oct 17, 2012

Why Do People Fall Out Of Love?




I have been in love many times and it is a great feeling and experience for me. But time came when either my partner or I fell out of love. Let’s just say I do not feel the same anymore. I saw a quotation that says “I wanted everything to stay the same ... but feelings fade and people change.”

That is indeed true but why do people fall out of love? How will they say to their partner that it’s not them who they want to be with anymore? People fall in love for reasons and many relationships failed because they are all the wrong reasons for being in love. Some people get into relationships because they feel empty or worthless when they are single. Some people get hooked because their friends are in relationships and they feel aloof in the game of love. Some might be constantly interrogated by family as to when they are settling down. So there is pressure, either direct or indirect, on both men and women to fall in love.

Oct 3, 2012

New Love After A Heart Break? - How Will It Work?






Find out that your best friend who just broke up with her long-time beau is dating this new hot guy in your office. Or saw the newspaper and your favorite Hollywood stars are hooking up to this one sought after bachelor? For example, Ashton Kutcher is rumored having a romantic relationship with "The Black Swan" star, Mila Kunis., whom just broke up with his cougar lady love Demi Moore.

So how these people do it? How they manage to find a new love right after their break-up or rather why? How do they begin a new relationship right after the old one ended? Well, it is because it is one of the best ways to get over heartbreak. 

Apr 22, 2010

Stalker:Lover Or Not?


Stalkers: Lover Or Not?






When you busted up with your loved one, the intimate binding does not depart away that easily. There will be later that you’ll still review on her, where is he/she or what is he/she is doing. But if that behaviour of reviewing your ex moves past his/her confidential line, that’s not regular anymore. Or if a person is crushing/courting on you or likes you. And you refused them, and still implore and chase you where ever you depart, what will you do?  When will we declare if that a person is stalking us? How to get away with these varieties of people?

Stalkers can be put into some divergent groups supported on the motivation of their stalking behavior. Any separate someone stalker may or may not fit carefully into the groups submitted here. On the afterwards part are planed to give stalking victims more knowledge on the normal motivations, individuality characteristics, and behaviors of divergent sorts of stalkers. Furthermore, portion give women and men learning that they can use to stop the opposing extra subjects of stalking and better envisage the behaviors of a stalker.

Mar 11, 2010

Dealing with possessive partner


Possessive Men,
Possessive Women:
How to Tell When It's Love and When It's Possessiveness
‘If you love a person set them free.’
That is how the quotation moves, and how bonds should at best be in actual life.
But what eventuates when you have a male companion who truly, truly loves you – to the purpose where he attempts to manipulate your every move, who you secure out with, and menaces suicide if you move out him? When does love become possessiveness, and when does jealousy transform into abusive behaviour?

Jan 30, 2010

How Do You Know If Your A Rebound?


How do you know if you or your partner are on the rebound? What must you do to ensure you don't get into a hurtful rebound relationship or, if you find yourself in one, what can you do to protect yourself?
A rebound relationship is one that occurs shortly after the break-up of a significant love relationship. If you are in a relationship but have distanced yourself emotionally from your relationship partner, you may begin a rebound relationship before you even leave the relationship you are in. If you move quickly from a long lasting relationship into another relationship then you are probably in a “rebound relationship."

In essence, when you're in a rebound relationship you spend a significant amount of time focusing on your previous one. Focusing on what could have been, what went wrong, wondering if you did the right thing in splitting up and lots more besides. All the time you focus on your old relationship you are draining the potential of your current one to be successful.

You spend the time focusing on the old relationship because you have unanswered questions, because you still hurt from some of the experiences you went through, because you haven't taken the time that your mind and your heart needs to work through the painful emotions you're still feeling.

A rebound relationship is a distraction. It is a connection to another person that keeps us from having to experience the full extent of the emotional pain of our resent break – up. It is a misguided attempt to “move on” with our lives. Many people will jump back into the dating scene because they fear being alone . It’s a quick fix, one in which we can drown out our pain by reveling in the emotional intensity and passion of a new found love. It can be a a lot more fun that dealing with the misery of a recently broken heart.


Can you tell if you're in a rebound relationship?


Don’t go into a rebound relationship expecting your new partner to make up for the shortcomings and mistakes of the old partner. I like to call this the “knight is shining armor syndrome.” You may have just come out of a relationship that involved infidelity or abuse so, you turn around and expect your new partner to be able to make up for the pain you experienced in the old relationship. More than likely, all you will do is exchange one set of problems for another.


What to do if you're already in a rebound relationship?


The biggest danger of being in a rebound relationship is that you might commit to it when your partner really isn't suitable for you. In any relationship in the early romantic stages there's a danger that you're going to think this is the best relationship you've ever had and you'll want to commit too early.
However, in a rebound relationship, because you'll be feeling more vulnerable than ever, and more eager to retain the love you're receiving, you're even more likely to over commit.
So take it slowly. Even though you may feel like this is the best relationship ever, you're partner is perfect and you'll never, ever feel any different, just force yourself to take your time. If your love for each other is real they will understand if you need to slow down a little.
If it's your partner that's on the rebound, then treat any commitment requests with the same caution - for the very same reasons.


What to do to prevent yourself getting into a rebound relationship?


The only thing you can do is to try to establish up front how long it's been since their previous significant relationship. If it's less than a month for every year of their relationship then there is a significant chance that they're still getting over their previous relationship. This is of course only a guideline. But the shorter the break since their last relationship, the more likely your partner is to be still dealing with the issues from it.