Four teachers in the last six weeks have been arrested in the Tucson area, accused of having inappropriate love affairs with students. We wanted to dig a little deeper into why these relationships, in general, start in the first place.
That's
four that got caught, you know, are there more? How often does it
happen," Edward DiCochea said.
Pushing
his daughter on the swings at Reid Park, DiCochea has a lot of
questions about teacher-student relationships and hopes his
daughter is never confronted with one of these situations.
He
said, "The best I can do is teach her right and wrong and
hope she's able to make those decisions and definitely look for help
if she needs help in anyway."
To
learn more about why these relationships happen, we sit down with
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Adena Bank Lees LCSW LISAC BCETS,
who specializes in cases surrounding sexual abuse.
"As
adults we need to know we do have a certain authority and power over
kids," Adena Bank Lees said.
In
a teacher / student relationship case, she says that power is being
violated and that's why it's abuse.
"Usually
those students are more vulnerable, their self-esteem is not as high
and they don't have these kinds of peer relationships," Bank
Lees said.
She
says in some cases teachers will target those students and give them
more attention.
"It
starts off very innocent and the adolescent or the child is now, I'm
special, somebody cares about me. I don't get cared about like that
at home or with my friends and it feels good," Bank Lees
said.
In
some of the recent local cases, police say teachers have been busted
by using cell phones or even their computers in the relationships.
Bank Lees says, as the teacher-student relationships develops,
the teacher's thinking can become distorted.
"What
happens with the thinking distortion for the adult, from the teacher
is that I don't care about the consequences, they don't think through
this could be setting me up for someone to find me out."
She
feels more teachers are getting caught, but these relationships
have been around for decades.
"We
will tend to blame the younger person, he or she asked for it,
dressed a certain way, seduced them, etc. No, the adult is always
responsible."
Adena
Bank Lees says if a teacher or student are feeling those feelings,
they need to seek help immediately.
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