Jealousy

“But jealousy... it's a strange thing. So much more powerful than I would have thought. And irrational!” 

– Edward Cullen, Twilight

Jealousy. 

It may only be a straightforward remark, but does not have such a straightforward explanation behind it. There are more justifications we sense green-eyed and though it is a regular human sensitivity to sense, it tends to get out of manipulate if we bungle to tame it. In rank to tame it and manipulate it even so, you will first have to study where your jealousy is drawing close from. There is perpetually a source for jealousy to develop from and one time you have those reasons for figured out, assisting it will become easier.

When you’re green-eyed sensitivities draw close out, all you recognize is that you are feeling that way, correct? That is where you need to stop! It will be hard to consider, but you ought take a break every time you sense green-eyed request yourself why you sense that way. Does it have a thing to do with your own self-esteem, or does the someone you are in a bond with give you with good justifications to sense this way? Speaking of self-esteem, jealousy is a good way of falling it. So no subject what the justifications may be, it is valued for you to conquer it, then it can do many severe impairment to your self-esteem. and greatly

What A Girl Wants?

Girls are the most gorgeous creation of the globe. But most guys think that they are complicated to understand. Considering the fact that all the guys who are in relationship with girls have following questions in their mind.

In today’s modern world many guys get dumped by their girl friends, as they find better match and many guys dump their girl friends for better match. But should we start doing awful, if something bad has happened to us? I one gets dumped, then one should not develop perception for everyone. Rather, one should believe that he/she didn’t find true love. I believe that there is lot of learning being in a successful or unsuccessful relationship and I think that everyone finds true love some day to get committed.

How Do You Know If Your A Rebound?

How do you know if you or your partner are on the rebound? What must you do to ensure you don't get into a hurtful rebound relationship or, if you find yourself in one, what can you do to protect yourself?

A rebound relationship is one that occurs shortly after the break-up of a significant love relationship. If you are in a relationship but have distanced yourself emotionally from your relationship partner, you may begin a rebound relationship before you even leave the relationship you are in. If you move quickly from a long lasting relationship into another relationship then you are probably in a “rebound relationship."

In essence, when you're in a rebound relationship you spend a significant amount of time focusing on your previous one. Focusing on what could have been, what went wrong, wondering if you did the right thing in splitting up and lots more besides. All the time you focus on your old relationship you are draining the potential of your current one to be successful.

You spend the time focusing on the old relationship because you have unanswered questions, because you still hurt from some of the experiences you went through, because you haven't taken the time that your mind and your heart needs to work through the painful emotions you're still feeling.

A rebound relationship is a distraction. It is a connection to another person that keeps us from having to experience the full extent of the emotional pain of our resent break – up. It is a misguided attempt to “move on” with our lives. Many people will jump back into the dating scene because they fear being alone . It’s a quick fix, one in which we can drown out our pain by reveling in the emotional intensity and passion of a new found love. It can be a a lot more fun that dealing with the misery of a recently broken heart.

Can you tell if you're in a rebound relationship?

Don’t go into a rebound relationship expecting your new partner to make up for the shortcomings and mistakes of the old partner. I like to call this the “knight is shining armor syndrome.” You may have just come out of a relationship that involved infidelity or abuse so, you turn around and expect your new partner to be able to make up for the pain you experienced in the old relationship. More than likely, all you will do is exchange one set of problems for another.

What to do if you're already in a rebound relationship?

The biggest danger of being in a rebound relationship is that you might commit to it when your partner really isn't suitable for you. In any relationship in the early romantic stages there's a danger that you're going to think this is the best relationship you've ever had and you'll want to commit too early.

However, in a rebound relationship, because you'll be feeling more vulnerable than ever, and more eager to retain the love you're receiving, you're even more likely to over commit.

So take it slowly. Even though you may feel like this is the best relationship ever, you're partner is perfect and you'll never, ever feel any different, just force yourself to take your time. If your love for each other is real they will understand if you need to slow down a little.

If it's your partner that's on the rebound, then treat any commitment requests with the same caution - for the very same reasons.

What to do to prevent yourself getting into a rebound relationship?

The only thing you can do is to try to establish up front how long it's been since their previous significant relationship. If it's less than a month for every year of their relationship then there is a significant chance that they're still getting over their previous relationship. This is of course only a guideline. But the shorter the break since their last relationship, the more likely your partner is to be still dealing with the issues from it.

Virginity Are Losers?

One day at the mall, i accidentally passed by on a famous outlet (clothing).. i invite myself in to check for their new stuffs. i noticed a simple black tee and its colorful print, it says "VIRGINITY IS FOR LOSER". i giggled to the thought of it.

"hahaha, at least I'm not one.." i muttered to myself.

but as i walk out to the store, i asked myself this, "is it really true that virginity is for loser?"

that those people who choose not to surrender their virginity are losers?

i think million times... NO!!!

virgin people are not loser, either the none virgins. women specifically are underestimated and misunderstood by many when it comes to that issue.. VIRGINITY.

i, myself, would admit that I'm not anymore. I'm not a self-proclaim bitch but I'm just being true to myself that I'm not, not that I'm proud of it.instead, i can answer straightforwardly if someone will ask me.

i gave it to the man i thought ill be with forever, WITH NO REGRETS, NO IFS, NO BUTS..

i was ready then, i gave it because i love him that much, before. but it doesn't make me less of a woman. giving it t someone is a very difficult decision to make, at least for some few who value themselves. i don't have any objections on people who are virgins, none virgins and to some who are trying to hide the truth about it.

for me, SEX IS NOT A SIN.

it is one way of expressing your love, emotions and affection to the one you love you do it with love.. passionately. the intense feeling of inexplicable fiery emotion in your first sex experience is one of the most fascinating feeling in some one's life. but it doesn't mean if you're committed, you need or have to have sex with that person, that's when the CHOICES comes in.


we should respect the choices of everyone, and DO NOT JUDGE them with the choices they make. there is no certain rule in giving it but its up to you on how to value yourself whether you are or you are not a virgin anymore.

the way you handle yourself reflects on how you respect people around you. whether you choose to stay virgin or you wan to gave it already...

just remember, that you have to RESPECT YOURSELF, treat YOURSELF as a PRECIOUS GEM..

Single Is A Gift

 

Alone? That was me almost a year ago. Sullen, empty. I wore many masks to hide, to pretend and to scape to the sadness that never seems to leave me. It embraces me at night, it’s killing me slowly. It’s always there and soon it became my best buddy. I grew fond of it, until it bestowed me my wish, to be numb..

Pain become my companion as I took my journey. Pain taught me to forget the pain and hurt I’ve been through, I hated love, commitments, relationships, it disgusts me seeing couples cuddling, kissing, hugging and showing affection and passion to each other.

The Art Of Letting Go

Sometimes, we ask ourselves why love leaves us when we have given so much of ourselves that there is little left for us to start all over again. A lot of us built dreams with the people we hope would be with us forever, only to realize that there is nothing permanent in this cruel world. "Love come and go."

The Game Called Love

About love...

Love is one of the questions we have always attempted to answer in more than one way. This only shows that it is quite impossible to grasp and comprehend the totality of it’s being. But we try, don’t we? We try and find out by getting hurt… we try and find out… when you enter into a relationship, when you commit yourself you must always bear in mind that you are sharing a part of yourself to a stranger who mere chance or destine fate, you take the risk.