New Love After A Heart Break? - How Will It Work?

Find out that your best friend who just broke up with her long-time beau is dating this new hot guy in your office. Or saw the newspaper and your favorite Hollywood stars are hooking up to this one sought after bachelor? For example, Ashton Kutcher is rumored having a romantic relationship with "The Black Swan" star, Mila Kunis., whom just broke up with his cougar lady love Demi Moore.

So how these people do it? How they manage to find a new love right after their break-up or rather why? How do they begin a new relationship right after the old one ended? Well, it is because it is one of the best ways to get over heartbreak. 

 

When you find someone that you like to be with right after a painful break-up, this new person helps you forget the excruciating pain, make you feel better and comforted. It’s similar to being stuck in a hailstorm and then coming home to a fireplace and blanket.

After a break-up you find yourself disoriented, unstable. You might find yourself breaking down all of a sudden; find yourself getting emotional for the most small of things. A new person in your life brings with him/her stability, a much needed support, like a crutch when you have had a fracture. He/she lifts your confidence, your self-esteem to where it formerly was, makes you happy and keeps you from doing senseless things like calling your ex after getting drunk. Falling in love right away will plug the holes and keep them from leaking.

And what if this person is the original Mr. or Ms. Right? What if the lessons you learned from past relationship actually help you in choosing the right partner this time around? It can happen. Your internal radar may actually lead you the perfect partner. So, go with your instinct. Just like with every relationship, don’t over analyze. Give it time to simmer, let the color show.

Dating someone new right after heartbreak is a great idea. However, be sure you take a little time off in between. You need some time to heal, to get back to full condition, some time for yourself, to take a breather, to reflect on how the last one went and how you want the future one to go. Eventually, you will need to take some time off to resolve past relationship issues, gain some closure. When you do feel sad or hurt because of your past romance, don’t take it out on your present partner. Instead, discuss it with him/her. Be open about how you’re feeling. Remember, it’s not them, it’s you.

All in all, falling in love immediately is a wonderful thing, but just be sure you set the pace for the relationship –where you don’t feel too rushed, and ensure it isn’t a rebound. So, go forth, survive the pain with a new, fresh beginning.