Things You Should Never Say/Text to Your Ex

I Miss You

Girl, you don’t miss him! He hurt you. He played you. He did something bad. There’s a reason you guys broke up. Don’t tell him that you miss him because you don’t! Once you tell him you miss him, his ego will rise and he’s going to think that you’re vulnerable and that he has you wrapped around his finger. He’s going to think that he is the coolest guy in the planet and he’s going to use that to his advantage. Most likely, he’ll tell you that he misses you too, but don’t fall for that! He may truly miss you, but there’s a reason you guys broke and he might do the same thing again. Or he could be lying to you and he doesn't really miss you. He probably just wants to make you believe that he does so that he can feel better about himself.

How To Get Over Your Ex?

Sorry to break it to you, but it’s over. The relationship has ended. You two are no longer together. You can’t kiss him anymore. You can’t hug him anymore. And you need to accept it. The first step to moving on is to accept that it’s over. You’ve got to understand that you can’t talk to him anymore. You can’t hang out with him anymore. You can’t check up on his social media accounts anymore. You’ve got to delete those old messages. Delete your pictures together. Delete his number. It’s over. Accept it. The hurt will be over soon. You can do it!  

How to Deal With Selfish Lover?

“It was because all we wanted was each other's constant love and attention and for no one else to receive that love and attention, which is a selfish and difficult place to be in a relationship. We were emotionally retarded, and that was the best we could do at the time.” 

― Anthony Kiedis, Scar Tissue

Occasionally, you are “that” lover. Then there are times when your partner becomes “that” lover. But when being erotically egocentric isn’t the exception to the rule, having a selfish lover can be a bit of a problem.

Despite the adage that “to give is to receive,” supporting only one person’s wanton welfare gets really old really fast.

At first, it’s hard to fault a lover for being self-consumed during sex. After all, it’s a bit of a compliment — a sign that he or she must be having a really good time. It’s sweet ... until you realize that you’re the one always left hanging. With your lover lost to the pleasuring, you’re getting zero help in becoming sexually satiated as well.

Selfishness happens. But when it’s habit, how do you handle this lover?

How to Deal with Racist People

Everyday racism has to be tackled by ordinary people.—Adele Horin, Sydney Morning Herald

Growing up in a society in which the face of racial discrimination is often masked and ignored by social media, it is difficult to see where and how we still need to change. Some may argue that we do not need to change, that racism does not exist today.

Sure there are the fading generations of racists that still dwell within small areas of our nation, but we, as a majority, have grown and evolved beyond the racist conventions that polluted our society in the past. People are no longer judged based on the color of their skin or their ethnic background. As Martin Luther King, Jr. had hoped, people are now judged by the content of their character. Sadly, this perspective is not yet a reality.

Making Sex Video: The Pleasure and Disorder

“If you want to be famous, just make a sex tape.” - Demi Lovato

Like Kim Kardashian, Miley Cyrus, Paris Hilton and many more celebrities are once involved in sex videos controversy. However, not only Hollywood personalities and other entertainers engage in the practice, but also sports figures and politicians even for normal people. Being part of a modern couple that doesn't subscribe to traditional sexual mores, you've even talk about it with your partner. Making sex video may be a great idea, but it's a very fragile art and not one to be leaped into lightly.

When done right, videotaping yourselves (may) bring you closer together as a couple. However, there are several pitfalls that must be head off to guarantee that your video is a make rather than break moment for your relationship.

I have quoted these theory of Resty S.Odon's blog about “Why do people make sex videos?”  post stating that;

• To have a souvenir of love and sex conquest, in a perverse sense of personal achievement/fulfillment?
  
• To have something titillating to watch over and over again when bored?
• To imitate in real life what they often watch online, porn, thinking carefully staged porn portrayal to be real and thus normal?
  
• To have a handy evidence in the future just in case the lover denies the relationship/what happened?
  
• To have a means to get back at the lover someday by blackmail in case she opts out/drops him for another?
  
• Because having a sex video is cool nowadays, not something sick; after all, Hollywood stars do it all the time?
  
• Because sex and women have become dirt-cheap?
  
• Because men unknowingly hate women so much they would want to use them then embarrass them then discard them like used condoms?
  
• To demonstrate one's sex prowess? To earn bragging rights or something to boast to friends over a few drinks?
• All of the above?

To put my two cents here, I’d like to add a theory as an “EGO” argument for why your man wants to make a sex video . I think this has to be the most plausible reason for dude’s making sex tapes. I mean, I get how making a video can be sexy. You get to act like porn stars. Pretending you’re being filmed or watched adds a naughty, exhibitionist rush to what’s basically a role playing game.

But sometimes I can’t help but think that there are men out there who thinks of sex video as a trophy. Who knows? They watch them when their self-esteem is low? Or maybe the plan is to be able to watch themselves in their prime, nailing hot tight bodies when they are old.

In MedpageToday.com's website, Michele R. Berman MD the author of “What Were Theythinking? Why People Make Sex Tapes”, she stated these disorder:

Exhibitionistic Disorder (DSM-5, proposed)

A. Over a period of at least six months, recurrent and intense sexual fantasies, sexual urges, or sexual behaviors involving the exposure of one's genitals to an unsuspecting stranger.

B. The person is distressed or impaired by these attractions, or has sought sexual stimulation from exposing the genitals to three or more unsuspecting strangers on separate occasions.

Voyeuristic Disorder (DSM-5, proposed)

A. Over a period of at least six months, recurrent and intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or sexual behaviors involving the observing of an unsuspecting person who is naked, in the process of disrobing, or engaging in sexual activity.

B. The person is distressed or impaired by these attractions, or has sought sexual stimulation from observing three or more unsuspecting persons who are naked, disrobing, or engaging in sexual activity on separate occasions.

Both exhibitionism and voyeurism are paraphilic disorders (others include fetishism, sadomasochism, transvestism, frotteurism and pedophilia). Pathologic narcissism falls into an entirely different category of mental illnesses referred to as personality disorders which also include paranoid, antisocial, borderline and obsessive-compulsive disorders. Narcissistic personality disorder and bullying will be the subjects of a future story.

When making sex videos...

It may be tempting to let out your inner exhibitionist, think over this consequences:

• Your boss will know what your O face looks like.
  
• Thanks to Google and YouTube – your next generation will be able to see that.
• When you're in bed with a new guy or babe, you'll always wonder if he's grabbing your boobs and thinking, "Hey! These looked a lot bigger on my phone!"

Get an App!!

Yes, an app! There's an app for making sex video where you can create, share, compete and of course protect your sex videos/sex tapes using IntiMate app;


Features:

• Shoot tapes or even pictures directly IntiMate app.
• It has “DELETE FOR EVER”, the sex tapes are only stored n their IntiMate system and cannot be copied or shared without your permission.
• It has “SHARE from STRANGERS” where you can screen all social media sites like Facebook, LinkedIn, Email, your phone or even geographical areas. Your sex tape remains “INVISIBLE” to anyone connected less than 3 degrees to you.
• It has also a “PROTECT” option wherein IntiMate will encrypt with password only to you, so whenever someone will rob your phone, SD card, or even your computer/laptop, they can never access it because password is always requested to view it.
• It has “Share Ownership” wherein your sex videos owned by you and your partner, if you deleter your partner deletes the tape, one can't access it anymore.
• (I find it funny) but, intiMate app has “CHALLENGES” option wherein you can compete with other couples or team and even vote for the best sex videos. (Wow!!)

Download now!

Do it for Fun and not for Blackmail!


It should go without saying that making a sex video should only proceed with the permission of both partners.

With a little knowledge and preparation, you can be sure that your first sex video won't be your last.

Top 10 Signs That He’s Just Not That Into You

Have you recently met a guy and have been pondering whether or not he’s into you? Telling if a guy is actually into you is much easier than most women think. Often time’s women let their own personal feelings get in the way of their thinking and later realize that they have been wasting time with a guy that doesn’t actually like them.

Regardless of age, or level of dating experience, reading men’s interest in you can be a struggle. Many men prefer to stay mysterious, go for privacy in all areas of their lives until they are ready to make a serious commitment. Lucky you if he will tell you his purposes up front. But for most men, grasping on to their subtle (and not-so-subtle) cues can be an easier way to get their message and avoid unnecessary heartbreak.

Self-Love is Good: Surprsingly Health Benefits of Masturbation

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