Mar 10, 2012

Is it Love or is it just Lust?



Do you think you’re in love, or is it just lust? These two emotions are inseparable. Lust is responsible for hormones -- it's a natural way of bringing a man and woman together to mate. In fact, without lust, it's uncertain that perfect love between opposite sexes would have a chance to grow at all.

The concept of the sex connects the difference between the almost incompatible brain styles of the two sexes. Hence, lust can be seen as one end of a wide range, which may or may not end in romantic love.

Love is the most dominant of all human emotions -- inspiring, self-sacrificing and capable of creating emotional conditions that can make the man want to be a “better” partner. Men fight wars over lust, but they make homes and families for love.

Oct 13, 2011

Premarital Sex - Positives And Negatives



Premarital Sex - Positives and Negatives

"Is it ok to have premarital sex?" That is a universal query amid teens and engrossed couples. Perhaps you are in a bond that is progressing in that main purpose, but you're not definite what to do. In your psyche, you are possibly weighing the pros and cons of premarital sex. On the optimistic boundary of the scale, there is acceptance from your looks, expect for enjoyment, and the fulfillment of intimate desires. The opposing boundary of the scale carries the weights of ethics, dread of pregnancy or illness, and guilt. How perform these sizes balance? What is the right decision? Let's take a view at some of the facts. 

Premarital Sex - Is it Moral?

Jul 31, 2011

Same Sex Relationship: An Important Role




Unlike a heterosexual relationship, a lesbian relationship provides more freedom than restrictions. However, eventually every lesbian relationship suffers from one common drawback: the fear of society in which one has to survive. All relationships are based on love, understanding and expectations. The same holds true for lesbian relationships. A difference of opinion occurs on grounds of whether or not the lesbian identity should be concealed from the society. Insecurity builds up if one of the partners opts to conceal the relationship from the society. Even if a lesbian couple overcomes the homophobia factor, there are other relevant issues regarding the social background, attitudes and most importantly the age difference between both the partners. In order to make any relationship a success, both the individuals need to provide enough space to each other. This might create a problem if one of the partners is dominating in nature. The other partner might feel rejected due to such demanding tendencies. It therefore becomes obvious that both the partners need to get fine tuned with each other's behavioral patterns.






May 22, 2011

Fetishism: Obsessive fascination




Fetishism

The term "fetishism" was coined in the late 1800s. It originates from the Portuguese word feitico, which means "obsessive fascination".  There is a degree of fetishistic arousal in most normal individuals who find particular bodily features attractive. However, fetishistic arousal is generally considered a problem when it interferes with normal sexual or social functioning and where sexual arousal is impossible without the fetish object.

A fetish exists when a person is sexually aroused by a nonliving object. It can manifest in two ways, one more extreme than the other. One form associates coitus with some object (most frequently women's panties or other undergarments1 ). It is relatively harmless if the action is taken playfully and is acceptable to the person's partner. Focus on certain parts of the body (feet, hair, ears, etc) aside from those part of the pleasurable foreplay, can become fetishistic in its hold on the individual.


May 14, 2011

Feminism: Estrogen power!!!




"Yes, I am a feminist, but I do not hate men. "

First of all, being a feminist does NOT mean that you are a man-hater. If you were a man-hater, you would very simply call yourself a man-hater, and not a feminist. Simply hating men does not turn you into a feminist, or vice versa. True, there are many women who hate men, and some of these women tend to call themselves feminists. There are feminists that do hate men, but they do so because of their own personal reasons, and do not represent feminism as it stands. Often men tend to get defensive when they meet a woman who calls herself a feminist. There is really no reason to. A feminist does not want to put men down in order to pull women up. What she wants is to create awareness of the fact that women deserve equal rights and opportunity as men.

Oct 12, 2010

Man Hater Vs. Feminist (Part 1)





Why is it that man-haters are inclined to be considered of as feminists? They are two solely distinct entities. Let’s first tackle what man hater is.

If you tell people that you are a feminist, and most will assume that you are a man hater.

First of all, let us define man hater. It is simply hatred for boys, or misandry. The counterpart is called misogyny, the hatred of women or girls.

You seduce them and then dump them. And you often have a cruel smile of satisfaction as you stick the knife in with such classic parting lines as: "And by the way, I was sleeping with your best friend at the same time . . . and he was much better than you".


Aug 5, 2010

Can Ex-lovers Be Good Friends?






In relationships, couples tend to pride themselves on being able to talk about anything and everything. The measure of a healthy relationship is often based on honesty, trust, and how comfortable we feel discussing ourselves, our feelings, hopes, and goals. However, there are few topics that can strike more fear and tension into an otherwise blissful union than the opening of the ex-files.


Chances are, you have had lovers before. By adulthood, most of us have a couple of failed bonds under our belts, and reasoning would pursue that our present partners have had the same. Although we are deliberately mindful of this item, most population would rather not recognize any kind about it. If we put a label and a face to the ex of this someone who is now the center of our world, it becomes not hard to put too much reflected into “their” bond alternatively of “our” relationship.