Mar 31, 2010

cheaters: why do they exists?

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Why do people betray on their partner?


Do men betray for the thrill? Or for the sex? If your affiliate has an achievement, that doesn’t plan the end of your relationship.


When men have achievements, they are in all likelihood to be stimulated by sex — new sex, more sex, divergent sex. Women betray for more reasons: companionship, romance, more security, and, of course, sex. But are men’s motivations rightly that simple? No. Even for men, deceiving is far more complex. Studies present most men who betray like to investigate by sex and appreciating the dash bound with “new sex.”

Mar 22, 2010

CYBER LOVE: What is REAL and what is VIRTUAL.

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“Cyber Love”—Only Just a Fantasy


In the midst of the internet era, online romance has been extensively rehearsed and presentations no indication of going out of fashion. “Cyber love”, if in item it is authorized to such a label, is a kind of phenomenal and striking thing to those who have fanatical themselves to it. From  the sparkling earlier term articles titled “solicit articles”, it looks like to me that a multitude of us are setting their affections on so-called “romances”, hoping their online partners could become their eternal beloved ones. For some time, I had been imbibed and profoundly influenced by their narratives that I virtually compromised my own standpoint. However, I ought to forego that awareness, persuasive my sense to get the better of emotions.

Mar 20, 2010

When Love And Obsession Opposed

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Why do so many women and men attach themselves to destructive and painful relationships -- relationships that they cannot walk away from? Why do they need to manipulate and control their partners, using whatever means necessary? Love is focused and centered on the needs of the beloved. Obsession, in contrast, is self-centered. The obsessed is always focused on his (or her) own desires and the object of obsession is incidental. Love treats the beloved as a human being and in extreme cases lovers treat love and beloved as divine. For the obsessed the centre of his attention is an object with no desires, no life independent of the intense desire that the obsessed has for the object. He/She is almost like a child who is mad for a toy and will take the toy with him (or her) to bed, to garden, and even to the toilet. But if one day the toy hurts the child, there is immediate rejection. The child is now looking for a new toy while the old one is thrown mercilessly into the dustbin.

Mar 11, 2010

Dealing with possessive partner

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Possessive Men,
Possessive Women:
How to Tell When It's Love and When It's Possessiveness
‘If you love a person set them free.’
That is how the quotation moves, and how bonds should at best be in actual life.
But what eventuates when you have a male companion who truly, truly loves you – to the purpose where he attempts to manipulate your every move, who you secure out with, and menaces suicide if you move out him? When does love become possessiveness, and when does jealousy transform into abusive behaviour?

Mar 7, 2010

Dealing With Commitment Phobia

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Can you recognize the signs of commitment phobic? You’ve found yourself what you consider to be a great guy/girl, at least in the beginning of the relationship. But after months of dating, he begins to pull away from you. Before you beat yourself up over this guy/girl and think you’re the reason to blame for his or her reluctance to be in a committed relationship, stop and think about it. The odds are high that he has a fear of commitment and trail of past relationships, each of which ended with a great girl left behind. His commitment phobia isn’t anything new; he was looking for a way out a week or two into your relationship.